No if your man is cheating on you

1. You check his cell phone. You sneak looks at text messages and listen to his voice mail messages. If his phone rings, you will answer it. After all, even if the caller ID is a man's name, that could be a code name for a woman, right?

2. /You solicit your friends and relatives to help you keep an eye on him/ and give you frequent updates. The Army calls this a situational report or a SITREP. Your family and friends will soon grow tired of this and start avoiding you. This will put a strain on your relationship with everyone.

3. /You demand access to all of his social network accounts/ and you check them regularly. You know every username and password to all of his accounts. If for some reason he changes them, you will stop at nothing to figure them out on your own. You question him about his female friends, who they are, how did he meet them, or has he hooked up with them etc. You are the checker and you will soon be exhausted. LOL

4. /You send friend requests to his female friends/ and send them direct messages asking them "Who are you?" and "How do you know my man?" You lose cool points doing this. Think about it: You are letting the other woman know how insecure you are. If she's a trouble maker, then she will stop at nothing to get under your skin every chance she gets.

5. /You check the history on his phone tab or computer/. You know the websites he visits, his email history etc. You work tirelessly to try and pull up the original message. Your suspicions are right and you know he is having conversations with other women and it's driving you insane. But every new discovery sends you deeper and deeper into a hole. You are stuck. So you do nothing but scream at him and find more incriminating evidence.

6. /Keeping an eye on him/ Is making you sick ... literally. You have headaches and anxiety. You can't sleep and you can't eat. You are losing weight. Your hair is falling out and you are having other medical problems too. You are risking your own health trying to keep up with this guy. Make sure you visit your primary care physician often. You will need a prescription for medication very soon.

7. /You rent cars or use someone else's car to follow/
him so you can keep an eye on him. At this point, you are at the brink of insanity. Spending your hard-earned money and going into debt to rent a
car to follow your man. You are losing it.

8. /You miss work, school or other important activities/ just to check out and verify information and stories that your man has told you. You have to
know if he is telling you the truth. You want answers. You call his friends, his family and his co-workers to see if they will verify his alibi. Visiting other people and making phone calls can take all
day. Who has time to go to work or school when they have important tasks like these that need to be handled?

9. /You are not the same person/ that you used to be before you started this relationship. You have changed greatly. You used to be a positive person who had a great outlook on life and your future. Now you are negative, paranoid and suspicious of everyone. Your family and friends avoid you because your behavior bothers them so much. You have lost everything including your job. His cheating has made you lose your mind.

10. /"Chill Out!"/ This is what your friends and family are asking you to do. Everyone knows you are going too far, but you won't listen to them. They love you and they are very concerned about your well-being. They say to you "leave him alone and find a man who will be faithful to you." However, you think that if you can keep an eye on him, this will fix the problem.
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